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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have two kids that will one day ask you why you are divorced. Even if they don't say it, [b]they will one day wonder if you worked hard at saving your marriage.[/b] Give it a year of personal and marriage counseling if you have any inkling of staying. Try to let go of the resentment and recognize that you probably weren't perfect either. After the year if you feel the same way, you can leave knowing that you tried. [/quote] NP here. No, they won’t. They will know I stayed for YEARS in something that was never going to work. They will know there is nothing “to save” if it was never a good marriage or a bad match. They will not repeat the pattern of old-fashioned thinking ensuring a miserable life. [/quote]
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