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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have two kids that will one day ask you why you are divorced.  Even if they don't say it, [b]they will one day wonder if you worked hard at saving your marriage.[/b]
Give it a year of personal and marriage counseling if you have any inkling of staying.  Try to let go of the resentment and recognize that you probably weren't perfect either.  After the year if you feel the same way, you can leave knowing that you tried.  [/quote]

What a horrible reason to stay.  When my kids were young, I didn't expect them to understand why I divorced.  Now that they're older and have had their own romantic relationships, they understand how difficult relationships can be.  OP has already given it a year.  That her husband is now making an effort doesn't mean the clock restarts.  [/quote]

No it's not. Many that get divorced don't see the ramifications down the road. It's goes down to the grand-kids.

[b]It forever changes a family and brings unwanted people into your kids lives. [/b]Think carefully. [/quote]

Wow, what a pessimistic take!!!

FWIW, my parents divorced when I was little, remained amicable, and not only do I love my stepmom, but so do my kids/her grandkids. I’m SO glad she was brought into my life, and my family![/quote]

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