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Reply to "I grieved end of marriage, now he wants to work on it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is what I would say. "I've worked so hard at this, alone, for so long that I am now pretty ambivalent,. If you want to save this marriage then you need to step up and do the work, maybe that will help convince me to stay but I just can't answer that question right now. Put in the work and we will see." That's all you can do OP. Don't promise him anything based on his words, see what he DOES.[/quote] Agree. I’d do the above and mentally have a 6 month period and then reassess. Did he do what he said he’d do? Is he honestly trying? Is he improving or not or bare minimum? Is he incapable? If any No’s I’d move on to divorce or shell marriage like it was before. Talk is cheap. He needs to apologize for the last decide and demonstrate improvement.[/quote]
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