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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've always been on the very thin side even after two kids. I'm active, eat healthy foods and stay the same size. I always get comments from family and strangers about how thin I am. It's wrong that people so openly discuss someone's thinness but would never do the same to a person who is overweight[/quote] Actually people do very often talk about overweight individuals in the open. The difference is that people discuss obesity with disgust and thinness with reverence/jealousy. So I agree they shouldn’t be commented on anybody’s body, but don’t go around feeling that your plight is the same or harder than an obese person because your family talk about your thinness. Have you read the This Is Us threads on dcum? How many threads and multiple posters talk about how “distracting” Kate’s weight is to them and it makes it hard for them to watch scenes with her in it 🙄 I’ve never heard anyone say that about Beth who is quite thin. Or I’m blaming on the friend pregnant with Kevin’s babies. I’ve been overweight and I’ve been thin, and the comments on my m Body when I was thin were much much kinder than when I was not. [/quote]
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