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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I found out DH ever cheated it would over.  I’d never trust him again.  Why stay?  I’m not a doormat.[/quote]

That’s like saying you would never ever bottle feed before you have a baby or that you would never give your kid a cell phone in middle school when you are not a parent.

We all say that for chrissakes.  Do you know anybody that says “hey, if my spouse cheats I’m staying!!”.

I’ve seen people swear up and down at the start of a marriage, but 20-years into a good marriage and three kids in the house and thinking of putting them first...you might be surprised how different you feel.  It’s indescribable.[/quote]

NP. When my DH and I talked about cheating while we were dating I was non-committal -- I didn't know what I'd do. I knew for sure if I was every physically abused I'd be gone. But cheating on me? It had never happened to me at that point. So I gave it a big I don't know.

As far as I know, DH has never cheated on me. But still. If he did I'm not sure what I'd do. I have really no idea what it would feel like or how I'd react. I'm not sure it is a deal breaker. But who knows.[/quote]

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