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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not to be gross, but do you masturbate?

I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 25 and like you I thought I might be asexual. I masturbated so I had the physical arousal part but didn’t really think about sex with another person that much and certainly never yearned for it. I would go on dates and kind of had fun making out with those men but never wanted it to go further. Then I got into my first relationship and started to understand wanting sex and really desiring it with my partner. I guess that would mean I’m “demisexual” because it seems I don’t have a sexual desire without a strong emotional connection. Within the bounds of a relationship I’m actually really high libido. 
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If you have not experienced the pleasure that can come from sex, then it is premature to label yourself as asexual.

You need a patient, unselfish partner that will help you discover this side of yourself, your preferences, etc

Don’t panic or give up. Be open and engaged with others. Good luck!

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