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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the MOH for a wedding shortly after New Year. The rest of the bridal party dropped out. I'm the last one standing. The bride is my sister. I really REALLY do not want to do this.  It involves travel and lots of indoor socializing with lots of people in a state that's in COVID denial and hasn't limited gatherings or encouraged masks. But she's made it clear that she's getting married in a specific time and place, and if people don't show up, well she'll learn to accept the fact that her closest family and friends don't truly love her.
It is beyond selfish, and I don't know how to back out without ruining our relationship for life.[/quote]

You should turn the table on her. you are happy to take part to her wedding by zoom or if she postpone it to after Covid and if she insists on demanding your physical presence to a wedding now then you know she does not truly love you and she will ruin your relationship for life.

if she loved you, she would not risk your life so you can attend a ceremony in person, when she can simply get married now and then do a party next summer when it is safe. you can get sick and die, or you can have a serious case and have bad health problem long term. my sister is overseas and told me that she and her long time boyfriend are getting married. she is waiting for the covid situation to go away so we can all travel. having the wedding now did not even cross her mind because she values the health of her family [/quote]

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