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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP needs to be prepared for changing reality. What if the EX and his new wife have kids? Half siblings of her own kids. You gotta play nice.[/quote]

OP, As I said in my original post, the AP has no children. She is considerably younger. I am aware of a changing reality, that’s life with divorce. What I am trying to do is make that reality less damaging for my kids. They don’t deserve any of this.[/quote]

Oh, I’m sorry you meant if they have kids together. My bad. Yes, I realize that is a likely scenario given her age. I would never, ever make things more difficult for my children or their half siblings. Even for the AP, especially if she becomes my kids’ stepmother. Right now, however, she is the woman my husband is leaving me for and I don’t want her around. I’m entitled to that. [/quote]

You are not going to be able to block her from seeing the kids except if there is abuse or neglect.[/quote]

if they refer to her as the whore or the slut often enough, it may be voluntary [/quote]

That behavior is completely unacceptable.  The woman isn't the issue.  Her husband is.  If he didn't cheat with the current woman it would have been someone else.  Sadly, you have no say what happens during Dad's time.  Not to worry, he'll cheat on her too and she may not last long.[/quote]

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