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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, it sounds like you’re desperate for this to be true so you can pursue non monogamy.

I’m hearing the two of you were disconnected for a bit (totally normal during this time..), that you both managed to reconnect sexually on some level, she changed her personal habits up (for whatever reason- you could ASK her, or tell her you noticed and enjoyed) , and now you’re critical of her.

Grow up, man. Not everyone operates like you. Have a damn conversation with your wife. [/quote]

OP here, FWIW we have not been disconnected for a bit, we have had sex about 6 times in last 14 months and before that was 1-2x a month in a good month. Been a slow decline for more than a decade.

I think you are right to some extend, I am not desperate for it to be true but I am desperate to change the status quo. She has always been the one rejecting me and hasn't shown any interest since the one time I "found" this. Anyway, I will ask her and report back.....[/quote]

So, when you had sex after three months, how did it happen? Was it spontaneous or planned?

I think you dropped the ball by not commenting on the grooming at the time. Not in an accusatory way, of course. [/quote]

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