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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So is his spouse now ungay?[/quote]

that's my question. The spouse was a lesbian, but is now married to a man? [/quote]

They are queer. [/quote]

What does queer mean anyways? I never understood that term. Gay and lesbian and bi make sense but what is queer?[/quote]

Basically it's an umbrella term: Queerness encompasses an intersection of identities. The term queer indicates an “individual who self-identifies as either Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer (also sometimes called “questioning”), intersex, and or asexual, aka the LGBTQIA+ community.[/quote]

Thank you for answering this question. I am sure the PPs appreciate it and I do too. These issues can be difficult for those of us of a certain age who want to be kind, respectful, and inclusive to wrap our minds around. Consequently, people ask questions which can be interpreted as rude or disrespectful. Generally people who ask questions aren't trying to ridicule. They just want to understand.

Nonetheless, the prevailing attitude of many "activists" is to respond: "it's not my job to educate you. Figure it out." It is so unproductive. I mean it's not like you can google "what category do you fall in if you are a lesbian who got married to a woman who is now a man?"  It isn't easy to understand. Maybe the answer is that you don't categorize, but often the category is important if you want to understand and offer respect. The opposite of love is indifference. Interest demonstrates caring.[/quote]

Actually, you can Google it. Even very niche topics have been discussed to death and written about extensively on the internet. It’s easy to find and spend your own time getting the information that already exists instead of demanding that someone take the time to tell you. Someone who genuinely seeks to understand will do that instead of dropping in to derail a discussion saying “What does queer mean anyway?”[/quote]

DP. Except that things are constantly evolving and it seems like just when you start to feel like you might get what is going on, there is a new label and a new pronoun and if you don't know it you are labeled anti-whatever.  So people are supposed to just "know" the terms of the moment.  Gender amounts to a fashion choice these days.  I don't care who you like, who you sleep with, or what you wear.  If you are a kind person, I'm cool with you.  The rest is window dressing and if you focus on it too much, I wonder what is up with you.  People are starving, people are dying, climate change, our idiot POTUS's outrage of the day, pandemic, on and on and on.  But pronouns...now that is something to devote energy to.  [/quote]

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