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[quote=Anonymous]I am in my 60's and have never been married, and am very content and successful. How often do you see couples (that you actually know well), that you envy? I can name one or two. The rest, are saddled with people you could not pay me to live with. I can't imagine having to consult someone else about how I spend my money, where I go on vacation, where I will move when I retire. The few times I have thought, "it might be nice to have someone to support me through this difficult period" ... a married (or divorced) person remarked, "that is because you are imagining they would make you feel better. Sometimes your partner makes you feel worse." My point is not that you would have been miserable married, but that much of your happiness is produced by what you do and think. No other person can "save" you from yourself. Work on nurturing your best qualities, and feeling proud of them. That should be your insurance, whether or not you ever get married. (HUGS)[/quote]
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