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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he “God fearing” or just someone who has come to have strong Christian values? If he wears his values on his sleeve moe on. [/quote]

OP here. We talked more and he is “ spiritually connected with god”. He doesn’t really see himself in church again, but he wants to have a connection with god. [/quote]

Sounds like mental illness. I'm not trying funny, nor am I particularly against religion.  This man is not stable, he's self-medicating.  His first method was indiscriminate sex and partying, possibly drugs, now it's a "spiritual connection".

He should be a hard pass for you, but from all your posts you're going to do it anyway, and  waltz right into heartbreak despite the big bright red flags.[/quote]

OP here. So everyone in their twenties has a mental illness? He did what most twenty somethings do - drinking, going to bars, and hooking up. He has never done drugs. He decided late twenties that he was over that lifestyle and wanted to be a better version of himself. He wanted to be an example for future kids. He grew up. In that time, he got more into god and having a spiritual connection with god. He has been this way for 5 years now. It’s important to him that his partner believes in god and lives their life with god in mind. That is not a mental illness. [/quote]

He sounds like a future cheater if you get married.  By 40 he will be cheating on you.  I’ve seen so many guys like that put on a good image and now they want to settled down and be married, but many were misogynisitoc, womanizer and since they never confront those issues and generally have friends that were doing this sleeping around/womanizing too...they all cheat on their wives in their 40s/50s.[/quote]

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