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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is he “God fearing” or just someone who has come to have strong Christian values? If he wears his values on his sleeve moe on. [/quote]

OP here. We talked more and he is “ spiritually connected with god”. He doesn’t really see himself in church again, but he wants to have a connection with god. [/quote]

Sounds like mental illness. I'm not trying funny, nor am I particularly against religion.  This man is not stable, he's self-medicating.  His first method was indiscriminate sex and partying, possibly drugs, now it's a "spiritual connection".

He should be a hard pass for you, but from all your posts you're going to do it anyway, and  waltz right into heartbreak despite the big bright red flags.[/quote]

OP here. So everyone in their twenties has a mental illness? He did what most twenty somethings do - drinking, going to bars, and hooking up. He has never done drugs. He decided late twenties that he was over that lifestyle and wanted to be a better version of himself. He wanted to be an example for future kids. He grew up. In that time, he got more into god and having a spiritual connection with god. He has been this way for 5 years now. It’s important to him that his partner believes in god and lives their life with god in mind. That is not a mental illness. [/quote]

That's not what I said, you know that.  You are also changing what you are saying about him in every other post.    But why are you here?  We didn't come into your house and demand an explanation for why you are dating this man. You came and asked if this was a good idea, you have been told that it isn't , you have been told the red flags. It's not the answer you wanted so now you're going to become indignant.

You're 32 you are desperate for marriage and kids, this guy is telling you what you want to hear, and you want to be told it's totally fine, so you can push through with your marriage and baby plans. 
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OP her[b]e. I'm not desperate for kids. Even if we did get married, I don't want to start having kids until around 37/38. Ideally having kids at 37 and 39 or 38 and 40. I wouldn't start before I was 35. [/quote][/b]

This might be the dumbest thing I have read all day![/quote]

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