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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I don’t forgive. I forget. It takes years. [/quote] OP here. I sense we have similar dispositions. Ballpark, how many years? Like whatever the worst thing someone has ever done to you was, how long before you really forgot it? Just trying to set my expectations appropriately.[/quote] I’m a NP, but in my case the betrayal was from my mother. It’s been 7 years. I haven’t forgotten, it still hurts greatly if I think or talk about it, but I noticed a shift around the 5 year mark. I’d say I was 80% better by then and it’s been steady ever since. I’ve gone from thinking about it almost every minute to now maybe a few times a month (less sometimes, more at other times, but rarely more than a handful of times in a single week now). Time helped a lot. Therapy helped somewhat in that I came to understand how unwell my mother is and how delusional (she has narcisstic personality disorder).[/quote]
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