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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- I physically can’t carry the stuff down the narrow little ladder. [/quote]
Wait--why exactly can't you physically carry stuff down the narrow little ladder? Pretty sure none of this stuff weighs 60+ pounds so unless you have some kind of serious physical limitation I'll bet anything you are as physically capable of this task as he is. Or is he just that much taller than you? Why not make this a team effort anyway and you BOTH haul the stuff down? Safer anyway than one person hauling anything down a ladder. And as for the tree, much easier if one can push it down through the opening with a second below to receive it. So, like, go pull the ladder down and say "Larlo, I need a hand here". [/quote]
Most of the items are in huge tupperware bins that are hard for me to handle especially climbing up and down. He's 6'3, I am 5'2. [/quote]
You are creating ridiculous excuses. If you want the Christmas decorations down, you can get them down. If you are not physically able then you really need to start working out. That should be a bigger priority than house decorating.[/quote]

Stop it - there are some things that I *could* do, but are just a lot easier from a physical standpoint for my DH to do, and our height discrepancy isn’t as big as the OP and her DH.

Add to that that OP is likely doing the bulk of housework and child rearing...and then she has to tote barges and lift bales just because she can? No. Getting Christmas decorations down is the least he could do. If he thinks it’s a little early, he should say so. Not, yes, I will do it and a week later OP is still waiting.[/quote]

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