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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remove all expectations from him. It sucks but its the only way to preserve your sanity. Of course, it may further contribute to any disaffection down the road if he doesn’t step up to the plate after some time and you’re left doing thé work and not even being bothered by his inaction. In my case, taking responsibility for everything did not help prevent the dissolution of my first marriage. It made divorce more appealing to me. My daily life is so much more peaceful and organized because I follow my pace and can contract help I need otherwise. There is no one to blame but myself if things don’t get done. One less person to be responsible for, like cutting a deadweight from a project team. Or unseating a crappy senator from congress.[/quote]

This! My husband is dead weight. If it’s not directed related to his gratification it will not be done. Laundry is always his, dishes he’ll complete, food is only enough for himself. The selfishness is unbearable at times. Feel it’s better to cut the dead weight. [/quote]

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