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Reply to "I have to beg or ask my husband 50+ times for everything. what should I do? "
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[quote=Anonymous]I read your update OP and you are in a tough situation. Can you just go ahead and do things, specifically the one related to money or health, if they aren’t done by a certain time and your DH claims that he plans to do it? Would he actually argue with you, cause a ruckus or be secretly relieved it’s taken care of? The other option, and maybe you’ve done this, is address it head on because it sounds like you are at a breaking point. Does he know it impacts you when he says he will do something big and doesn’t follow thru? Again, at his job where he makes 300K does he do that? Have you had that conversation where you said something has to change, whether that means you hire out more and/or do things the way that makes your life easier like holiday items stored in the garage or ordering a replacement piece for the bed if it hasn’t been done by x date, and getting help with the cleaning or whatever to free up the time to do those things?[/quote]
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