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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there a lot you ask him to do because you are unable to?   I'm not saying that it's an excuse for him to put things off but I wonder if thats part of it.   Dh was injured a couple of years ago and I had to do all the heavy lifting.  It definitely got tiring and I picked and chose what I did by the end.  A lot of stuff got outsourced because I was just tired of doing it all.  [/quote]

No. I ask a few chores and he has issues with all of them.

Get things from attic. (I asked him to leave tree in garage and ornaments so I don't have to ask him and he refused because they take up too much space)
Finish our taxes (I do 99%, last 3 years he just didn't do it and we were penalized)
Handle car stuff which I know nothing about (Waiting 2 years now for a dent to get fixed)

He is completely unorganized.. leaves clothes at dry cleaners for months at a time. Puts kids in car with no socks, shoes or water bottle which we don't realize until we are at destination. Forgets things constantly. Waits until the day of to book a flight for family of 5.  Orders furniture and leaves it lying and not put together for 6 months. Starts a household project and never completes it. I always offer to hire and handle a handyman coming and he refuses saying it is a waste of money and is angry if I do ask someone. He will forget to return things that are hundreds of dollars and leave it in his car. He is highly social, in a high level job and makes 300k+ a year no not stupid or incompetent.  It is frustrating to me because I have told him I will handle it but tell me and give me notice, don't insist on doing it and don't. 
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...why are you still married to this person? Honestly it sounds like you have another child on your hands. I can’t imsgine wanting to have sex with someone so helpless. Total turn off.[/quote]

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