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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I originally went into this thread thinking no big deal, but the more I think about it, the more I think this is a deal breaker. It is a small, stupid, inconsequential thing to lie about. If you lie about small stupid and inconsequential things, you will lie about much more important things. [/quote]

I agree, and the "I want to get past filters" justification makes it worse to me, not better. If someone says they don't want to date you it's kind of gross to try to "sneak" around that. There's a difference between casting a wide net and misrepresenting yourself to get more matches. [/quote]

Not really. IRL we don't make it a strict rule not to date over an exact age. It's more of a fluid scale and the number depends on personality and looks. If someone says they are 39 instead of 40 and this info generates them more matches, they will get approached more only if they look 39, instead of 40. So men would absolutely date a good looking woman who is 40 but claims she's 39, because in reality they don't see the difference.

Dating generators are exact, humans are not. It really depends on a case. 
But trying to get away with more than 2 years or not admitting it immediately is ridiculous. [/quote]

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