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[quote=Anonymous]OP I have a similar sister, and you have to learn to disengage until you can better handle it. That means hanging up or saying you have to run when they drone on and one about themselves, stop doing her a favor and answering all her calls about her crap. It’s a bad cycle to give up so much of yourself for other people. You should have learned a while ago, but she will use it all up at some point with her crap, so you need to keep some emotional capital for that time. So that’s what I do - I love my sister but I have put enough distance between us that when she’s an asshole or needs help, I still have the generosity of heart to be either forgiving or helpful, respectively. I hope that makes sense and helps![/quote]
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