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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't tell her you will sacrifice your career -- at least part time, or settle for not advancing in your job -- to do most of the child-rearing? Why is it a given that she will be doing these things? How much of a discussion have you really had? [/quote] I would never have a conversation like this. If she changes her mind now, and you have a child together and she later resents that, or she changes her mind later and refuses to have kids several years into the marriage ("well, I DID tell you I didn't want kids way back when, you should have known my true feelings") - well, either way you get unhappiness.[/quote]
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