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Reply to "Is it wrong to ask an SO if they have ever been intimate with a specific friend?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I thought we were open about these things. But it turns out I was wrong. It only came out 20 years into knowing each other my husband told me he and his best friend actually had slept together (how many times, I don't know, but it definitely included a 3-some) And, I honestly don't really care that they slept together. Or if she was an ex girlfriend. I care more about the fact that he chose not to tell me. I never even thought to ask, because he told me she was his best friend, not his best friend with benefits. I have to wonder why did he hide this? Did he still capital-L like her when we started going out? I would not have been jealous. I'm not jealous now. But I do wonder what else is out there that I don't know about?[/quote] How did this come up 20 years in? A 3-some from the past is a pretty big "oh by the way" over dinner one night... [/quote]
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