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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You realize that your lasagna example makes you look crazy, right? [/quote]

x1000  OP would make me crazy.  Too much navel gazing and lack of self-awareness.  Sheesh.  How does she even survive in the real world?[/quote]

Unless....... Her MIL and SIL are actually shitty to her all the time .

Unless....... Her MIL and SIL actually don't like her and chose to be catty or passive aggressive.

Unless....... It has been years and years of subtle, or not-so-subtle, exclusion, back handed comments, pointed mean comments.

I think the PP's who dismiss this out of hand are probably the exact kind of shitty people who do these things to others and gaslight anyone who points out said shitty behavior as petty, immature, unacceptable...[/quote]

Look, I read her post and I don't like her either.  From reading her post there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that she is an annoying, sniveling, whiner.  I don't blame her MIL or SIL for not wanting her to be around.  So, yes, she should just stop going.  She can blame them and feel good about herself while not realizing that she really is the problem, not them.

My dad has a saying that every time you point a finger at someone else you need to look at your pointing had because there are three fingers pointing right back at you.  At this point if someone comes in to this thread and puts up an OP like the one here that's the first thing I think is, oh, look, another person who can't get along with other people and who thinks it is all the other people's fault.[/quote]

And what is your relationship like with your SIL?[/quote]

Very good.  I can't think of anyone in my life with whom I don't get along with or would act rude to.  [b]As for my brother's wife, she has actually told people I am one of her closest friends.  I actually despise my her but she would never know it from the way I act around her.  Some of you are just very immature and insecure. [/b] It doesn't take a lot to get along with other people but it does mean you have to make a modicum of effort.[/quote]

Oh, so you are two-faced. That clarifies everything.[/quote]

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