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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you everyone for listening, i needed to vent but feel better. Im grateful that [b]im healthy enough and able to take care of DD on my own [/b]and will keep it moving, knowing I can only rely on myself and keep doing what I was doing! [/quote]

^This statement shows you are NOT healthy.  Your daughter has a father yet you are mentally in a state where you intend to highlight his flaws and look for reasons to get him out of your daughter's life. I believe you need therapy. Seriously.  Read up about parental alienation and you will find you may be practicing it without even being aware.

The most important thing you can do as a mother is foster and support your child's relationship with her father.  [/quote]

This is such a horrible take. Absolute horsesh*t. OP, ignore this. Bitter crappy dad troll strikes again.

OP, you are a good mom and you're doing a good job while also dealing with the issue that DD's dad is a deadbeat.

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Disagree.  OP, suggest you read up on the importance of father-daughter relationships.  There are plenty of scientific studies which you will find informative. Then seek out a therapist that will help both your daughter and YOU navigate her relationship with her father.

Instead of being defensive be proactive. Your daughter will never fault you if she sees you've done everything you can to help her connect with her father in a positive way no matter his faults.   [/quote]

It's her father's job to connect with his child.

Furthermore, whoever said "but it's her child's half-sibling" is crazy.  A vast majority of second wives would have preferred that their husbands had no older children since children compete for limited resources.  Particularly if the older child lives elsewhere, the second wife's preferred MO is to pretend that child does not exist. [/quote]

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