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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Professionals in the field will tell you child only. [/quote]

So people with entirely co-mingled finances would be expected to set up a solo account? I get why that's smart for asset protection but IRL it seems cold AF, like the person sees the writing on the wall. [/quote]

This is what my husband did. I hate him and his parents and it truly ruined my adult life with him and didn't make for a happy household for our children. Three more years and I'm out, and I will find some way to sue him for something, since we have had to spend every dime that I have earned while he sits on his trust funding not spending a dime of it without a care in the world (he doesn't have a job). You rich people are horrible and should be left to die alone. My husband and his parents will have only each other and I hope they are miserable in their old age. When my kids are adults, they will know exactly who these people are and I promise you will never give them the time of day.[/quote]

If the trust fund is big enough- quit. He can either pay the bills or not[/quote]

It's many millions of dollars. But he won't pay the bills. Then what do the kids and I do? I make just enough to cover our bills and I can't afford a new house in this area, so would have to move elsewhere. My only hope is that I can leave in a few years and he will see fit to atleast not make my buy out his half of the house. [b]To OP: is this what you want? A spouse who hates you? Especially because you're the one inisting he not be included? You sound awful. You and all your kinds are awful[/b]. [/quote]

I am not sure why OP is awful and what this has to do with your situation. you married a gigantic POS and somehow think that your life would be better if, still married to the POS, your ILs had donated money to you also. if it is many million of dollars, it makes sense to me that they donated to the son only, you could have left him the day after with their money. your husband does not work and does not pay any bills while having tons of money. as others have said, you can divorce him, find an attorney and see what your options are. if he has money, he cannot refuse to pay for the kids and you could have the right to live in the house until the kids are old enough to leave. your life sounds really miserable and if you wait, it may be worse, he can use you until the kids are older and then dump you for a younger woman, and yes, making you pay for his share of the house if he can. he already show you who he is so don't expect anything different. the fact your ILs did not donate to you is irrelevant, you did not marry them, you married your DH and he is the one who should treat you as a wife and life partner, not a free nanny and cleaning lady who pays his bills[/quote]

I don't expect my ILs to give me money. But they do act like they have done me a huge favor by giving their son millions of dollars. They don't seem to realize that he won't spend a dime of it on his family. They know he doesn't have a job, they see that piece of crap house we live in, but my mother in law once actually told me I should appreciate her more because she "funded our enterprise." I looked at her and said, "what are you talking about?" She's a horrible woman who raised a narcissist POS. That's why I hate them, too. [/quote]

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