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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not. You married the wrong man. You have a husband problem, not a societal problem.

My husband would never do this. He wouldn't want to, first of all, but even if he did, I would put a stop to it pronto.[/quote]

I bet for each one wife saying her husband would never do this, there are five who feel like OP, plus a couple more whose husbands are like OP's but they don't even know it's wrong, because patriarchy.

F**k the patriarchy.[/quote]

Damn straight!

And all the women claiming that you’re the loser for marrying a loser are just as much tools of the patriarchy as the legions of crappy husbands. Bye Serena! [/quote]

So anyway, of course all husbands are *capable* of being selfish assholes. So am I! I am *capable* of it. Do I act like that 99% of the time? No way. Am I literally capable? Yeah.

I'm woman enough to admit that sometimes I lean on my husband even when I don't particularly need the help. There are whole days when he does more than I do, and not even for some noble reason like I'm sick or have a busy work days. But overall, we have balance.

I am so very sorry you married a dud. But it's just not true that most husbands/fathers are like that. If you're a low-value woman who had to settle for a loser, I am sorry about that. But that's just not everyone's reality. [/quote]

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