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[quote=Anonymous]I haven't read all the responses, but OP you might be better off outsourcing some tasks than going part-time. Hire cleaners, order take out, send laundry out, pay for tutors, etc.

Also cut anything that doesn't make life better for you and the kids. Do nothing extra for your husband and absolutely nothing for his side of the family. If he wants to visit them, then he can do 100% of the work t make that happen and you stay home for a break while he brings the kids. No coordinating with his side of the family for anything, or buying them gifts, or calling on their birthdays. That would cut into your time to get stuff done or take a break.

Please check your mindset. You say you both have to check with each other on purchases over $250, but he's unilaterally deciding to use you for thousands of dollars worth of services each month while happily watching you drown. But you think the real inequity would be you unilaterally moving to part-time work to save your mental health and stability for your kids?[/quote]

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