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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To all those asking why I do his laundry, it's easy enough to throw it in with mine or the kids and I got sick of seeing his mountain of dirty clothes growing in the corner.

At least I've gotten him to pick up after himself, more or less. He used to leave his dirty socks everywhere and his dirty dishes by the sink for me to scrape and stack in the dishwasher. But that took a lot of conversations of me pushing him to do it and him accusing me of nagging and being annoying.[/quote]

OP, the point is not the laundry. The point is that he doesn't do these things because he knows you will. He may not care about a dirty house, but I guarantee you he won't be putting on dirty underwear when his runs out. Nor will he eat off a dirty plate. Drop some of the things you normally do for him. Let him feel discomfort, even if it means you feel it as well - you're already miserable!

Going part time is a no go if he's not onboard, unfortunately. Even if he's being unfair, this should be a family decision. [/quote]

PS You are unhappy. He is not pulling his weight as a partner and he refuses to do anything about it. Yell and scream and nag! He does not get to life in comfort while you suffer in silence. [/quote]

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