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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband was very open that he never wanted a long-term SAHM. He was fine with me taking time off when the kids were young, but he always wanted me to work. We don’t need my income, but he wanted to make sure I could support myself if anything ever happened. His parents married and had kids young. His mom never worked and was dependent on his dad. There were many trying times when he was younger and his mom did not have the skills or education to get a job. He doesn’t want that for his wife. Any other women have husbands who were against them being a SAHM? [/quote] Oooh! In the time of COVID pandemic, someone who wants to go back to the good ol days of WOHM bashing SAHMs. Could it be that you are not special/pretty/hot/high-value enough for a man to work and provide for you and your children? Sorry, no gravy train for you, Larla. It could also be that his own anger/shame at a mom who was unskilled and uneducated and the poverty of his childhood has informed his opinions. Your husband may need therapy. [/quote]
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