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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For the short term, prioritize you time over family time. Seriously. So he works until 1 and then 3-6 was supposed to be family time. Great! Have an appointment, need to get something, oops, cousin called and you need to call her back. Be honest with him that you are going to take from 3-5 and then help with dinner or whatever.

But you can't make more hours. You need to decide what is better for you. He is doing that (shifts) and that is ok. You don't have to have the same metrics. If all family matters more, then let it go that you have no you time.[/quote]

Right now, it's honestly the cleaning that doesnt allow me to do this. For example, today he came home at 2 and took DCs to the playground from 3:30-5:30 so I used that time to catch up on cleaning. It was finally alone time, but not really fully for myself. Sigh.[/quote]

So pay someone to come clean.[/quote]

Yes, that is the plan. Our regular cleaning company stopped during COVID and has not yet resumed. I've been trying to identify someone new for the past month to no avail.[/quote]

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