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[quote=Anonymous]And no it doesn’t encourage him to pick up more shifts. Remember that at some point, time is your most valuable asset. When he is working (ostensibly to collect more fun money), you are spending time on homeschooling the kids, household chores, and cleaning it sounds like. Not only are you taking on the lion’s share of savings, you’ve also been given the lion’s share of household responsibilities in addition to your full-time job. Serious question, how did you get here? The budgeting isn’t the only thing that needs to be reevaluated. Responsibilities and free time do too. I know that’s a lot to ask but honestly this situation does not sound sustainable. I’m a shift worker (ER doc) btw and a single mom so I get it. But this arrangement has to change or you’re going to resent the hell out of this guy. I do it all alone (SMBC) so I know how much work there is to do. If you’re lucky enough to have a partner, make it work for you sister![/quote]
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