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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are the kids in school or are they distance learning? Have you had a full time nanny throughout the pandemic? Who manages the nanny, you or your DH?  How big is your house and who takes care of the yard work and home maintenance?

I’m kind of in awe that he is not working and has a FULL time nanny- but at the same time, as a Sahp myself, I can kinda see how you can still stay extremely busy with 3 kids.  And I do pretty much everything with no outside help except a biweekly cleaner). And frankly a lot of stuff has been falling through the cracks. But the point is, you are feel very stressed, and he is not, and that imbalance is creating conflict and unfairness in your marriage.  You and he have to work together to even the load and burden. [/quote]

They were distance learning in the spring but they’re back in school right now. 
He and our nanny guided them through the remote learning.

Our nanny has been with us full time for ten years 
She lives with us and works about 60 hours a week
She has grown in her role as DCs got older so she does all of the housekeeping, laundry and cooking 
She is Spanish speaking and manages the landscaper and a bunch of service providers who we’ve used for years

He doesn’t get stressed because he doesn’t engage 
This was an issue at his work too and among the reasons he wasn’t able to get the start up going 
We’ve tried talking to a shrink but he wanted me to do weekly sessions and report back to him 😬
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