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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gf also said she probably would have gone for a different guy if I hadn’t tried hard in the beginning because my height was a negative for her as well[/quote]

"That's funny, I felt I was settling because of your small tits/flat butt/stomach/nose/insert insecurity here. I guess we're really well suited!"[/quote]

The difference is: [b]all those things can be changed and don't automatically get passed on to your own offspring[/b]. Unfortunately, short stature, especially for men, is seen as a negative. I married a man just below average height and my DS, who fortunately, grew eventually to almost 5' 11" worried his entire childhoold that he would wind up short and asking us why to short people would get married knowing their children would also be short. With that being said, GF is a jerk for sharing that. I would move along.[/quote]

That’s ridiculous. Of course noses and breast size are heritable. I have my father’s nose and my tits are exactly like my mother’s.[/quote]

Well my mom has the body of prepubescent boy, I was a perky E cup at 17.  Almost 40 now and not has perky, but definitely not saggy, H cup.[/quote]
 :roll:  Yea, and a short parent can end up with a tall child. That's not the point. The chances of a short parent having a tall child is slim; the chances of a tall parent having a tall child is much higher.

Having stated that... I'm super short, and my DH is super tall.  He did not care about the height difference, nor did he worry about having short children.  But, I have never dated a super short man simply because I've never been attracted to a man who was super short.

And I'm sorry to say, that if someone does care about having short offsprings, then yes, that person is not going to want to date a short person.  And I say this as a short person.

If you think this is going to bother your GF, then you should dump her.  There are plenty of women who are willing to date/marry short me. My brother is super short - barely 5'4. And he is married.  Yep, we are a super short family.   My kids will be short to average. That is just a given.[/quote]

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