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Reply to "If you are in a long-term partnership and not marrying, what are your reasons?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I would say finances. In reality, after marrying, it was other people and their behavior that made me decide to strongly consider never remarrying more than finances-at least right now. The insanity of being told that I was literally not my own person, needed to drop out of university/work to wait on my SO hand and foot was ridiculous. A lot of other things were much more degrading and obnoxious. I feel like I've been relegated to trophy status. I'll add in an aggressive MIL and an entire extended family with enmeshment and boundary issues as a reason not to marry as the expectations changed and behavior worsened. I think people in general treat you better unmarried. It has stopped or prevented zero sexual harassment, either.[/quote]
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