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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She didn't tell you about it, she says it was a mistake.  You are at the beginning of the relationship, nah, I would move on, she's a cheater.

If you think about it she was screwing around on you up to 2 months in and you have been dating for 9 months.  So you are looking at getting engaged to someone who you have really been dating exclusively for 7 months.  This is way too soon anyway.

If you do decide to stay and I get the feeling you will, I would put off ALL talk of engagements until you have dated her at least 2 years.  However she won't tell you she has cheated in that time as she has already shown you she can lie about that sort of thing.  Good luck.[/quote]

If you think about it she dated you for two months before she decided that she knew you well enough to stop seeing other people.

FFS, give a woman some agency in life. I may like you, think you’re sexy, smart or whatever, but you can still be a dick, have different life goals, different beliefs about family and parenting, etc., and I can’t tell about any of that until we’ve spent some time together. I’m not going to give up dating in two months.  Especially, not if we haven’t had a very specific and memorable conversation where you’ve explained that you want to be exclusive and why, i.e. what your relationship goals are.

If you’re not even sure that you were exclusive at that point, then you’re just treating her as damaged goods because you found out she slept with another guy. m

Shame on you for your misogyny. If you want to mark your territory, go piss on a tree.
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