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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First of all, I am sorry you are going through this. Pregnancy is such a vulnerable time, emotionally. The only thing that you can do is completely
Voice your feelings and opinions. It may be time for a reset sort of conversation. Usually we have these conversations at the beginning of relationships to establish our expectations and boundaries  for the relationship. In long-term relationships, it is critical to continue to have these conversations over time.  It’s okay to have different relationship expectations than other people here on DCUM. Many are okay with porn, and many are not okay with porn. You should be honest and tell your husband that paying for access to specific acts is not something you are okay with. Maybe he doesn’t know you are not okay with since you were already okay with porn? [/quote]

It's not just porn. It's paying women to perform specific sexual acts that their followers have requested. [/quote]

Yeah, true. But I guess what I’m trying to say is that maybe he is truly unaware that she perceives this to be different. If she has always been okay with pornography in their marriage, his thought process could have totally been innocent and thought these things were similar. I say this as a wife who is completely against pornography in my marriage. I think the only thing she can do is voice her opinion and make it clear that this new app or whatever it is crosses her boundaries into what she finds acceptable. [/quote]

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