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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You aren't actually supposed to SEND those letters, I don't think. [/quote] No you're not. Trying to get closure from your abuser is just providing a new weapon for the next phase of abuse. It's like Stockholm Syndrome in a way: you look to the source of your pain to provide you relief from that pain. It's a powerful drive in abuse victims that sets them up for endless cycles of abuse. PS the mom's reply may have some factual truth but with twisted, nasty motives/undertones. Just like everything in those toxic relationships. OP find your peace.[/quote] OP here. I realize this now. I told her during an "open conversation" that things she did in the past have hurt me. She said she genuinely wanted to know what she did as it was "important". Then she replied like that. [/quote]
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