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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d keep an eye on it. I’d get a good luck at his phone and email before I asked DH what it was about. [/quote]

Um, what do you think it's about?![/quote]

PP here. I think he is interested in flirting and potentially an affair. I just meant that I’d want to gather all the evidence before confronting him. That would tip him off to scrub all his accounts. [/quote]

This is a good tip from a divorce perspective.  Gathering evidence so it's ready to go is a very wise idea[/quote]

Evidence? For what? Just divorce. No one sues for at-fault divorce anymore.[/quote]

Wrong. Still an option. Provides evidence of adultery. Gives leverage emotionally. Also considered in alimony calculations depending on the state. [/quote]

[b]Yes.  Women are often denied alimony/spousal support and only get child support when adultery is proven.[/b][/quote]

This is incorrect. Child support has nothing to do with alimony, though it is more common for women/men to be denied spousal than it was when there was only one stream of income, and in certain states adultery can reduce or remove alimony. It does not change marital debt, marital assets by law, but can provide negotiation leverage. Adultery is anything during marriage, including after legal separation, which is why dating is not advised while waiting for a divorce to be finalized and decrees. Child support and custody is completely separate and even a final ruling can be revisited if circumstances support a modification.

In my case, I waived spousal, and allowed my ex to give a crappy amount of child support that barely covers 25% of a state calculated obligation. Think Tina Turner, leaving Ike. Otherwise it would have been Misery, the sequel. Sometimes it just ain’t worth it.

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