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Reply to "Have you / would you talk about your affair with your therapist?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s the point of therapy if you’re lying to your therapist? Isn’t the fact you’re cheating a big issue to be addressed? (Both your own personal responsibility as well as the underlying emotional reasons) Why bother with therapy at all? [/quote] OP here. I'd like help getting through my divorce (due to my husband's awful actions). My AP is a bright spot in my life and a huge support, so not talking about him would be strange, but if I do talk about him, I'm sure the conversation would change toward trying to get me to end it, which I have no intention of doing.[/quote] Don't waste your time. Don't waste your therapist's time. Don't waste your money. Therapy is only helpful if you are going to be honest. No point in going if you are not going to own up to your part in the break up of your marriage. Therapy is not useful if you go into it with a list of things you aren't going to change. Seriously don't bother.[/quote]
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