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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem is that you don't know you son. Meaning that you want an easy solution to nap and sleep issues and feeding and you want an easy kid. I bet your his nanny works hard to entertain him and take care of him. Cause that is what having a baby and a toddler is about. A lot of work.
All I am hearing is that you are lazy.[/quote]

Why don't you call her fat for the full misogyny?  :wink: We see you, mommy shamer. Gross. [/quote]
Don't give a crap about what you think is misogyny here. She is an incompetent parent, in her case a mom. Being a mom is hard work, I am shaming her for being lazy, which she is, when it comes to her child. Her kid wants her for bed time, what a difficult child! He wants her on the weekends when nannyis not there, what a difficult child. I wonder why is this kid so needy and why does this OP think she needs all this me time, when she decided to have a kid? Oh, wait, it is bcs she doesn't actually take care of her child most of the time. Some poeple need to be shamed. Parenting is hard and takes a lot out of person. And op is so full of it! She has a nanny, and a housekeeper, and DH most of the time. What I am shaming is a whiner! A lazy mom whiner. If you are like her, you need some shaming too. Don't have kids if you think putting them to bed is hard. People like you and OP are gross, not me.
Her post should read: I work all the time and don't know how to take care of my almost toddler on my own. 
That is shameful, regardelss of her working status.[/quote]

Really hope you don't have daughters, but make sure you sock a way a lot of money for therapy - if you are calling randos on the internet nasty names - I'm sure some of your toxic bile of self-hatred/misogyny is just oozing out all over your kids. You probably shame them constantly for failing to live up to your high high standards for potty-training and sundry. And I'm sure you spank, too.  :roll:  [/quote]
Nope. Nor am I the only one calling OP out. I am a feminist, I am the opposite of what you think. I might be a hater of men, on occasion, for enslaving the women, literarly and emotionaly around the world. You don't have to leg to stand on in your assumptions. You assumed a lot about me from one post? Who is shaming whom here?

You sound like a person that never did an honest day of work and that calls every criticism mysogyny or something else. Grow the eff up. I called her lazy, I did not call her a nasty name. Lazy whiner is not a nasty name. But, I am calling you out of touch with what hard work is and what being a parent is.

Let me explainsomething for you... people like me, have no time or pity for people like you. We work, we take kids to park, we lay down to get them to sleep, we go on walks, we play ball, we pick them up from a day care and we change clothes and we go to a park, or a walk, or in the past, indoor playgrounds with our kids. We give them baths, and we shower after they fall asleep. We rock them if needed for a nap, and for night time. We laugh with them, and carry them around, we read to them. We cook for them. We manage to take two kids to doctors even if only one is going. We stay alone, when DH is overseas, and my kid has is a FTT and screams day and night, and we hold them on our chests to soothe them. We do it for years. And we clean the kitchen at 10pm when kids are asleep, and pack their next day lunches and clean bathrooms, and shower after they are asleep. And then we rinse and repeat, and wake up at 5am, or 30 minutes before kids wake up to shower and make our lunch for work, and their breakfast and then we give our attention, our full attention to our kids. So, I will shame you day in and day out, and I will think poorly of you, if you think your kid hard because he is being a kid. Quite frankly, I have no respect for people like you. You seem to have no idea what the reality of life is for most of the people around the world, and most of the parents around the world.

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Totes, we think poorly of you because of your women-shaming tendencies, your poor grammar/writing abilities, and your lazy argumentation, etc. I am single mother to a toddler and a partner in Biglaw. Parenting a toddler is exceedingly hard - and I work 60-80 hours a week professionally and have gone overseas with my toddler for work 10+ times. Being a lawyer is WAY easier than parenting a toddler all-day, every day, by yourself.  I have no time or pity for you and your very sad life and your need to get off literally or figuratively on calling all mothers lazy or a whiner - that is the height misogyny which you wear like a badge of courage. It's not.  :shock: [/quote]
It is very clear that I am not a native English speaker. Please take your xenophobia somewhere else. [/quote]

You are hilarious and a bully. Please take your misogyny elsewhere :oops: . [/quote]
I don't think so. You are the one telling me to go. How come you are not telling it to pps that posted similar opinions? Why are you a bigot and a xenophobe? I think you should be ashamed of yout attitude towards immigrants and get off your high horse. I live a real life, and I work hard, and all I told her was to take care of her child when she is with her child. I think it the height of hypocrosy that a mom that has a nanny and a housekeeper, and a DH, is here telling people without any of these resources how hard she has it. Tone deaf and rich people problems. Millions missed their mortgage and rent payments, millions are working and struggling to keep their jobs and take care of their kids at home, and I am in the wrong? Rich people problems.[/quote]

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