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[quote=Anonymous]You jumped the gun. You need to date someone for a year minimum to even really know if you are a good fit together- see each other in all seasons before you can make the decision of whether a lifetime together is doable. To expect a ring after just a year of dating is completely unreasonable. I've seen other girlfriends do this, turns out they didn't really know their spouse prior to marriage, and marriages fell apart shortly thereafter.

You screwed things up by trying to rush things, especially if all else was going well between you two. It's okay to tell someone you want marriage and all that, and aren't looking to date forever. It's okay to even say that you won't consider dating someone longer for 2 years w/o a more significant commitment. Marriage is a big commitment, and sometimes it takes longer for 1 partner to be ready to make the leap than the other. If you can't be patient enough while waiting for your partner to get there, you certainly are not ready for marriage, which is nothing but a big exercise in patience.

I'd call up your guy, apologize, tell  him you love him, want to be with him, and want to marry him, one day, when he's ready. [/quote]

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