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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think this has been said, so I'm just adding to the chorus.

[b]That's your own choice to bring your own food, but it was totally weird and inconsiderate for you to not mention that you are bringing your own food to your SIL's get together that she was hosting.  She took the time and effort to plan and prepare food for your family.[/b]

It was also weird for your SIL to then follow up with an email demanding an apology.

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This.  I also agree that it is weird of the SIL to ask for an apology but [b]this may have been the straw that broke the camel's back if OP has a habit of being deliberately obstructive or rude.[/b][b][/quote]

Yep, here's a great example of a PP fabricating sinister reasons an OP is surely in the wrong! All the "may have beens" just mask the fact that posters on DCUM love to create monsters out of the simplest situations.

When your mind leaps immediately to "well, OP must have a habit of being obstructive or rude!" it tells us more about you than about the OP whom you have never met. If you've got someone like that in your own life, that's sad, but projecting it onto OP is as weird as SIL's insistent apology demand.[/quote]

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