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[quote=Anonymous]I think you may have jumped the gun on this one a bit, but also who knows if you would have stayed if the outcome would have been different. I don't know that I would put too much stock in his comment about looking at rings. That's a very easy thing for him to say that is low commitment to get you to stick around.

What seems to be missing is the two of you having active conversation about what each of you wants and when you want it. It sounds like you did a lot of talking about what YOU want...but did you ever talk about what you as a couple want together? Did you sit down and make plans together? If not, you've clearly missed a big opportunity. If you did and don't feel he's holding up his end of the bargain, then you did the right thing.

Honestly, after all this and how it went down, unless he comes back to you and clearly tells you he is sure he wants to marry you, and tells you a timeline on which that will happen, I don't know how you move forward. You going back just because he says he loves you is not going to make you feel any better about marriage, and you issuing an ultimatum that you only come back if he proposed and sets a date probably isn't going to feel right either. Unless it comes truly, sincerely, and completely from him, I don't think its going to work...which is I guess my long way of somewhat agreeing with the "wait him out" posters, although something about saying that feels a bit icky. [/quote]

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