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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Typically this sort of thing is discussed *before children cone into the family. Ideally, both people agree on how they want their children cared for and then proceed from there.[/quote] If that is your approach, build flexibility into it; you need to be aware that many people make those plans without fully appreciating what it means to become a parent. For a lot of folks, in spite of their best laid plans, the moment that child is in the house, everything changes.[/quote] I believe most women know whether or not they want to/ have to continue working after having kids long before the child arrives. Men may feel differently. My dh and I both agreed that I would sah and we planned and saved for years beforehand. Although I, at times, wished I could go back to work because sah was really hard, I never changed my mind.[/quote]
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