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[quote=Anonymous]OP, mom of 4 here so I get the feelings of being tired and overly touched. But you really are going to destroy your marriage with your attitude of, “Oh, well.”  Your husband is telling you that he is struggling and is not feeling happy in the marriage. And you are telling him that his feelings do not matter to you.

Once a week, you should try being “off” after dinner. DH plays with the kids, gets them ready for bed, etc. You sit in the tub with a glass of wine and just get some down time.

I also encourage you to read a book about women’s sexuality called “Come as You Are.”  It’s really good and it helped me approach sex less as something I was doing *for* my husband and something that I could find a way to do for me. Now I go into sex knowing that DH is going to focus on me and I’m going to get 2-4 good orgasms before we focus on him. That flow of pitocin is good for my mental health and I’ve come to appreciate it more.

I do hope you make an effort to try to get to 1x/week and find a way for it to be enjoyable for you, too. [/quote]

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