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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I totally agree with PP, and I say that as someone who cheated and can admit I was wrong.  Like they said, my spouse who stopped having sex with me.  It wasn't just a libido issue. If there was love and respect, there would have been sex. Instead it was my spouses way of being passive aggressive and denying me something I needed to be happy.

We were both wrong.[/quote]

Did you ever ask your wife why she was lacking in love and respect for you? Is it possible that there is something about how your personality/character has changed over the years that has affected her love and respect for you? Is there something about the way you treat her; in other words, does she feel that you treat her with love and respect, that you care deeply about her for who she is?

Sometimes, people don’t communicate well with each other. Misunderstandings happen, and the next thing you know, one person thinks the other doesn’t care for them or love them anymore. Talking and really listening can make a difference if two people can really have trust in each other. 
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Yes, I asked repeatedly, she never gave a reason for her libido tanking. we had at least a dozen conversations. I am sure there was something, but I can't fix what I don't know. I am sure some of it was just natural loss of desire that most women have after a decade of marriage and kids[/quote]

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