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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Alcoholism is a disease.  This should be explained to your children.

Your children have made it clear they want to continue to have a relationship with their father, no matter what his issues are. It sounds like they are glad for any time they can get with him even if it's for short periods of time.

[b]I am quite certain your kids can feel your disrespect and death-wish about their father.  That is probably impacting how they view their visits. You are putting them in a bad position where their binds to their father are being sawed at by your negative feelings towards him.
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You also call him a narcissist. Was this a professional diagnosis from a health care provider or is it your opinion?

[b]If you want to alienate your kids from their father I'd say you are being successful. 
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The most important thing a divorced parent can do is foster the best relationship possible with the other parent.  
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You have a lot of nerve. I'm pissed on the OP's behalf just reading this crap. You think she needs a professional diagnosis from a health care provider to call him a narcissist, yet you think you can spew this crap??? Unreal. You suck, PP. OP is clearly trying to do the best thing for her kids. You really, really suck....[/quote]

I’m pissed on OPs behalf as well, I could have written her post. You’re disgusting and probably am alienated dad- maybe your kids hate you too because you’re a loser like OPs ex and you blame their mom.
Couldn’t possibly be The drunken father who is to blame for his his kids see him or how the court had to police his ass.[/quote]

Mom's can do what ever they want and withhold visits with all kinds of excuses including made up and the judges believe their sob stories.  A loser Dad is still better than no Dad.  Read her post.  She doesn't want him involved.  Yes, she needs a professional person to diagnosis but the real question is what would she be diagnosed with.[/quote]

Disagree. No dad is MUCH better than loser dad. Every time my dad pulled his bullshit, it made me feel like I’d done something wrong and deserved it. Alcoholics and drug addicts have serious mental issues and unless they’re willing to sort them out, it’s better that they’re kept away from kids. My mom finally told my dad to get the hell out of our lives and got me into therapy. It was a godsend and took years to undue the damage. OP, explain to your children that they don’t deserve this type of treatment and that if someone treats them like that, to walk away from that person. Family isn’t everything, especially when family is abusive. They deserve better than their loser father.[/quote]

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