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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a good friend who is in her 40s and has never been married. She's always very together, she is pretty, in shape, very smart. So much going for her. [b]But she just is off putting much of the time and she doesn't see it. She sees herself as presenting professional, competent, kind. But it's like it's somehow practiced. I don't think it is, but she . . . she's just never relaxed, at ease, easy.[/b]

All of that makes her really good at her job, but no so good at being someone you just want to hang out with.

She starts dating someone, she's excited, then it never goes anywhere after a few dates. I can only think it's the easy thing. And I don't mean easy as in sex. [/quote]

I have a similar friend. Good person, but comes off as unlikable. It causes her problems with dating, job interviews, you name it. She’s oblivious and doesn’t take feedback well.

She’s very insecure, so early on she will work into first date conversations about the expensive house she bought herself (not true, her parents and ex husband helped, but I digress), her masters, or anything else she thinks might make her sound impressive. 
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