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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I sleep in the guest room because: a) I sleep better; and b) I can masturbate in peace.

I used to endure the trouble I have falling asleep in the hopes that being in the bedroom would help our sex life. But it didn't. (Once every 4-6 weeks before, same after.)

I know my wife would like me to sleep in bed with her, but overall our marriage is better if I'm better rested & not sexually frustrated. [/quote]

Wow, this is so dead on to my marriage I thought I wrote it. I tried to make it a habit of going back to sleep with my wife but all it led to was sexual frustration a d resentment. So back to the guest room for me[/quote]

In all seriousness, this is exactly it.  My DW and I have had issues with sex lately to the point where I'm lucky if it happens 1x month.  She's borderline asexual and never initiates.  Going to bed is fraught with issues - it's depressing/frustrating getting into bed with her b/c there is no chance for sex even when I'm crazy for her.  I can see how sleeping in a guest bedroom would help in that regard but it's certainly not a long term solution[/quote]

It's probably worse in the long term, since it's my situation too, and since I got the guestro, we have gone from 1x a month to 1x a season. But at least I. Not sexually frustrated anymore, I can take care of things in private at night and morning. It does reveal how she is fine to never have sex again. For now I prefer being a full time dad but it's hard to see the point of remaining married when we are empty nesters.

She looks at retirement places for us and I look at her like she has 5 heads and is clueless.  I imagine she would turn a blind eye if I found something on the side.[/quote]

Wow.

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