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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Strategically thinking, I would not send it. At this point, you have some small degree of leverage over this woman, with her knowing that you can always tell her husband. You lose that as soon as you communicate with him.  Once you lose that leverage, there’s nothing to stop her from lashing out at you if she is in anyway part of your community. Or even if she is not. While completely explicable and she has brought consequences upon herself, sending the letter is an act of aggression Even if deserved. Regardless how deserve, no, be ready for aggression to be met with counter aggression. Perhaps in ways you would not expect. Toward your kids, toward your employer, toward your spouse, you just don’t know. Just be ready for it. And remember, she is a serial cheater, so doesn’t feel bound to tell the truth. I would be very careful.[/quote]

Thank you, pp.  This is exactly what stops me from doing it.  I know she is a vile, nasty person with zero self-esteem and will continue being unhappy because she hates her life, her husband and doesn’t even like her kids very much.  She hated her parents too.

I am working through PTSD and when the triggers come it is rough going, but I think if my own kids and that’s what’s keeping me together (barely) for now.

I know living well is the best revenge.  I was.  That’s especially made her angry or “jealous” as she told me.  It will take time.  From what I am told, minimum of two years- probably longer.

Venting here helps.[/quote]

Just remember your DH who F*cked her is also a vile, nasty, unhappy person with low self esteem who didn't love you and your family enough to turn down her nasty @ss.  Just divorce him.[/quote]

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